Last weekend, I attended a funeral. I’m one of those strange individuals who actually enjoys them. At funerals I can indulge my fascination with death, have the opportunity to view a corpse (which I also find thrilling), and witness the careful orchestration of remembrance. To me, these ceremonies are one of the most interesting aspects of culture.
I
attended my first funeral while in grade school, at a time when I was just
beginning to grapple with the concept of death. The service made a profound
impression on me. Chuck was a beautiful boy in my sixth grade class and the
focus of an intense crush. We had just moved beyond gawking at each other over
lunch and had progressed to the point of light conversation when he decided to
go hunting with a friend. His friend tripped while carrying a shotgun, the gun
discharged, and Chuck was killed instantly. I can still picture him in his
casket. His dark suit couldn’t hide the bulky dressing used to fill the gaping
wound in his chest. I remember his blond hair.
Funerals
have deep roots in human culture. For thousands of years, humans
have celebrated death in some form or another. Even our cousins, the
Neanderthals, incorporated ceremony into the disposal of the dead; at least,
according to researchers at the Spanish site of
Sima de las Palomas, where they’ve excavated the remains of at least six
individuals who appear to have been intentionally interred.
But
does interment mean an actual funeral took place? That's where mortuary analysis comes in. By
examining the myriad and often creative ways humans dispose of the dead, we can
infer meaning behind such practices. First, we look at the evidence.
How
is the body prepared? How is it positioned in the ground? What is included in
the grave (grave goods)? And who is buried next to whom? These are some of the
questions that provide the scaffolding on which we recreate burial rituals of
the past.
Most
archaeologists contend that intentional burial implies some form of ceremony.
This is a logical assumption, especially when there are associated grave goods,
the body has been treated or manipulated in some manner, and there are obvious
patterns to the interments.
Interment,
however, doesn’t necessarily require ceremony, ritual, or even a belief in an
afterlife. At its most basic, it’s an economical means of disposing of a smelly
corpse.
But
as our brains evolved and our cortexes expanded, our cognition developed beyond mere
self-awareness. With abstract thought came the ability to imagine, ponder, and
reflect. Our large brains enabled us to see beyond the here and now and ask
questions. Who are we? Where did we come from? And what happens to us when we
die?
These
questions needed answers. With imagination came the ability to conjure
explanations for what we experience in life and what we just might experience
in death.
I
believe the concept of an afterlife began as a simple explanation for that most
vexing of questions: where do we go when we die?
If you’ve ever watched someone die, you can’t help but wonder what is happening to them as they move through the process. I’m not talking about the physiology of death: the cessation of pulse, circulation, and breath.
If you’ve ever watched someone die, you can’t help but wonder what is happening to them as they move through the process. I’m not talking about the physiology of death: the cessation of pulse, circulation, and breath.
I’m
talking about the more ephemeral aspects of a person. Their personality, their
joys, their sorrows; everything that made that person who they were in life.
Where does that go? Most people refuse to accept that the attributes that make
each of us unique are simply based on the wiring of our brains, and when the wires stop transmitting, the person ceases
to exist. Which may explain the concept of the soul.
Many
religions treat death as a journey - to another place, another realm, sometimes
even to a new and better life (depending on how well you behaved in the last
one). And once people started viewing death as a journey, the next logical step
was to prepare the deceased for the trip. Thus, adorning the body, gathering
belongings, providing food, and in extreme cases, sacrificing individuals to
accompany the dead to the other side.
Of
course if you’re an atheist like me, dead is dead. End of story. (I
hope I’m right: I would hate to come back as a dung
beetle.)
So
I attend funerals not for their spiritual or religious meaning, but with the
curiosity of an anthropologist. But I also attend so that I can grieve and say goodbye, which is really what funerals are all about.
Even
us nonbelievers appreciate a good sendoff.
Here's an intense read on the subject of mortuary analysis co-edited by one of the founders of American bioarchaeology, Jane Buikstra.